UPDATE AGAIN

June 2, 2008 Daddy had the surgery to remove his bladder, amongst some other things, and when they got in there they saw that indeed the cancer was NOT contained inside the bladder and had spread out like a sheet behind his bowels. They removed all they could without running into major veins and arteries. He was in a lot of pain for about 3 hrs on June 4, 2008 after they removed his epidural.
Only GOD can change things now. Once he's better after surgery and healed they are talking about more chemotherapy and adding radiation this time, we'll have to see what daddy's decision is.
Thanks to everyone here for their prayers, but the journey isn't near over yet. Please continue to pray.
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